Why wait until bad events, to show the good in us?

THIS IS LONG, but WOULD LOVE OPINIONS AND OR A DISCUSSION  I figure now is a good time to let people in on my thoughts... Life... what does it mean to you? and are you fulfilling it. So many of us make careers out of Jobs... and some of us turn passion into a career. Some people turn family into chores, and others turn optional friends into family...   There is never a clear answer, but what makes you different? It takes one disaster whether its mentally, spiritually, physically, or around the world. Then all of a sudden you get steered back on course.   When somethin happens on the EastCoast... do you not call All your family and check up on them? although u havent even thought of them for months. When someone dies from a disease/substance of some sort, do you not rethink your usage and/or living conditions?   The subconcious mind is powerful, your thoughts are already there, but we refuse to tap into it because we are distracted in our progression.   If someone lost their child right now, wouldnt you rethink about the safety of your own son/daughter?   What im saying is... Why wait until the bad happens, to show that there is still some good in you?   imma stop here...   illa